Me: Is this woman someone who took vows of fidelity to you?
Me: Is this man someone who took vows of fidelity to you?
Me: Is this man someone you simply shacked up with without a commitment?
Me: Did you decide to create two children in this insecure situation?
Me: And you’re mad at HER???
While these two situations seem unrelated, they most certainly are related. How? When a person makes foolish decisions and then complains about the most typical, logical and predictable outcome, that is a person totally out of touch with the reality of life. YOU make choices; YOU should be willing to take responsibility for those choices and stop looking and acting as if you are an innocent victim of life’s tidal waves."